I've been busy figuring out the way I want to go and have taken a few suggestions from others, plus some additional research and have come up with this:
Magnaflow Tru-X X-Pipe
Borla Stinger S-Type Axle Back with Stainless Steel Exhaust Hanger Kit
SCT LiveWire Mustang Tuner w/ Free Custom Tunes & Windshield Mount
C&L Racer Cold Air Intake
C&L Performance 3 Valve Intake Manifold
BBK Twin 62mm Throttle Body
Steeda Mustang Underdrive Pulley System
Comp Cams Stage II XFI VSR Camshafts
Comp Cams Valve Springs Beehive
Comp Cams Valve Spring Steel Retainers
Motive Performance Plus 3.90 Gears (8.8in)
Motive Bearing Kit (8.8in)
Ford Racing 8.8" Traction-LOK Rebuild Kit w/ Carbon Discs
Shelby Strut Tower Brace
Regarding cams, I was thinking 3.73 for something a little more reasonable on the street than 4.10; but then I saw the 3.90's and read the reviews. Looks like a good middle ground between mild and radical.
On the right track? better suggestions? Your advice is appreciated.